6 Easiest Ways To Know You Are With Cheater or Liar

6 Easiest Ways To Know You Are With Cheater or Liar

I wrote this article with the help of one of my closest female friends. She went through one of the most painful breakups I’d seen in my years of counselling people and helping them out. She was cheated on, for about four years. I’m going to let her talk now:

When in a relationship initially, we subconsciously let go of the hints and alarming signs that our partner starts to show.В Being lied to or being cheated on is the first thing that can happen to anyone.В It’s like you build your house bit by bit. Going through good and bad times both and within a second you feel like someone pulled the ground from under your feet.В The whole sense of stability is lost and then it is just you twirling around in a tornado of the things you thought were real and the things that never existed.

𝗜𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗺𝗮𝗻 𝗶𝘀 𝘀𝗵𝘂𝘁𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗱𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗻𝗰𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗵𝗶𝗺𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳. 𝗢𝗿 𝗶𝗳 𝗵𝗲’𝘀 𝗮𝗹𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗱𝘆 𝗺𝗮𝗱𝗲 𝘂𝗽 𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗺𝗶𝗻𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗶𝘁’𝘀 𝗼𝘃𝗲𝗿. 𝗧𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲’𝘀 𝗼𝗻𝗹𝘆 𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗰𝗮𝗻 𝗱𝗼 𝘁𝗼 𝗴𝗲𝘁 𝗵𝗶𝗺 𝗯𝗮𝗰𝗸 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗴𝗼𝗼𝗱. 𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗰𝗮𝗻’𝘁 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝘃𝗶𝗻𝗰𝗲 𝗵𝗶𝗺. 𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗰𝗮𝗻’𝘁 𝗯𝗲𝗴. 𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗰𝗮𝗻’𝘁 𝗺𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗺𝗶𝘀𝗲𝘀. 𝗜𝘁 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗼𝗻𝗹𝘆 𝗽𝘂𝘀𝗵 𝗵𝗶𝗺 𝗳𝘂𝗿𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝗮𝘄𝗮𝘆. 𝗔𝗻𝗱 𝗰𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗺𝗶𝗻𝗱 𝗶𝘀 𝗶𝗺𝗽𝗼𝘀𝘀𝗶𝗯𝗹𝗲.> 𝗖𝗟𝗜𝗖𝗞 HERE < 𝘁𝗼 𝗱𝗶𝘀𝗰𝗼𝘃𝗲𝗿 𝗵𝗼𝘄 𝘁𝗼 𝘁𝗿𝗶𝗴𝗴𝗲𝗿 𝗲𝗺𝗼𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀 𝗱𝗲𝗲𝗽 𝗶𝗻𝘀𝗶𝗱𝗲 𝗵𝗶𝗺. 𝗙𝗲𝗲𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴𝘀 𝗵𝗲 𝗔𝗟𝗥𝗘𝗔𝗗𝗬 𝗵𝗮𝘀 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝘆𝗼𝘂. 𝗧𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗴𝗲𝘁 𝗵𝗶𝗺 𝘁𝗼 𝗰𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗲 𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗼𝘄𝗻 𝗺𝗶𝗻𝗱 𝗳𝗿𝗼𝗺 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗶𝗻𝘀𝗶𝗱𝗲 𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗵𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝗵𝗶𝗺 𝗰𝗵𝗮𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗯𝗲𝗴𝗴𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗬𝗢𝗨 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗮 𝘀𝗲𝗰𝗼𝗻𝗱 𝗰𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗰𝗲.

Why do we let something like this happen to us?В We are at times so much in denial that we get blinded by all the good things happening in the relationship while the negatives that have always been there, slowly creep in through the backdoor and we only realise this after suffering. I suffered like that in my 4 years long relationship.В It slowly poisoned my life and the relationship I had. We never expect the people we love to be the liars we see in movies. We expect it to happen to any of our friends but never us!В And we stop being realistic thus when we realise how stupid we have been trying to pretend that nothing is wrong. Due to which we often suffer a lot, many many years!

I wish I knew and believed these tell signs. It would have saved me at least four years of my life.В But anyways I learned from it so I never make the same mistake, again. Here is how you can spot one.

1. Liars and cheaters do not trust

A liar or a cheater is always apprehensive and is always trying to find something that will help them not trust the person. As they know what people are capable of. Trust will always be the point of dispute for a very long time if you are in a relationship with them.

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